I thought I should include a picture of several nationalities smiling so you can try to find the differences in the smiles. I think we all just look happy, and I apologize for not smiling. There is one American and one Brit- can you tell the difference from the smiles?
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But back to Americans having fake smiles. I think that Americans are capable of having real smiles, and if they aren't, I don't know what a smile is. Part of being able to tell if a smile is real or fake is based on our ability to mirror the smile being made. I think I have mirrored real smiles of other Americans. But, I guess I am American, so maybe I have no idea what a real smile is. If that is true, it makes me sad.
I know there are lots of conceptions about people from the US and I wonder if this is something that people really think is true. (And if it is actually true.) I did a quick Google search (and now have lowered my critical thinking skills a little more) and found some interesting results.
First, was from an annoyed American who had lived abroad, and when he went back to the States to visit, he/she had issues with Americans always smiling at him. You can read about his/her annoyance in his great Yahoo Answers question. He/she says that everyone smiles as they pass you, and he therefore questions the genuineness of the smiles. Then he/she quotes Baudrillard: "Like the Cheshire cat, the smile continues long after the emotion has died." There are some interesting answers for him/her. It makes me wonder what other Americans that have gone abroad think about this, and what other nationalities think about this when they are in the States.
Then I came across an interesting article about the differences between the way people from the US and the way Britons smile. This article gives an overview of the study and talks about the different ways the NYT (from the US) and the Sunday Times (from the UK) present the findings. (Links to the NYT and Sunday Times articles are provided in the article.) The two smiles are distinct and use different muscles in the face. (And yes, Clarie, I went back and looked at pictures of you to see if your smile fit the British profile. It's too late for me to make a decision on that.)
I also came across a several blogs that only briefly mentioned Americans and their smiles. Mostly, the consensus was that Americans smile too much, and therefore, the smiles are fake. If someone greets you with a smile on their face, tells you to come back soon with a smile, and invites you over to have tea with a smile, they are clearly faking their smile. (And it apparently really pisses some people off.)
Finally, I found a cool website where you can test your own ability at spotting fake smiles! It doesn't take too long, and it was interesting to see how many I got right (17 out of 20, in case you were wondering). You can take the BBC test here.
Peace and Love from Santiago
PS-I started packing, and it's kind of sad. I have less than a week of looking over my living room balcony to a beautiful sunset behind Cerro San Cristobal while listening to the sounds of happy summer time coming from the park. Less than a week!
I think in the photo the real question is who is the drunkest?! That is having the biggest effect on the smiles!!
ReplyDeleteAs for US stereotypes...there is a definitely a preconception in the UK that you guys are overly polite which equates to being false...we always imagine you guys saying 'have a nice day' in every situation when the reality is that you couldn't care less about what kind of day that person has. In saying this I can;t think of a single american that has said that to me my entire time being away from home so i guess that's not so true!
I do remember thinking that the air stewards were excessively polite on my flight from London to Dallas, i swear they thanked me for flying with them on a half hourly basis, and the smiles never ever left their faces, it was though they had had prozac overdoses....but they were being paid to be that polite so I'm not sure that's a good example! If anything it annoyed me though, it didnt make me more inclined to fly with them in the future!
I did the smile quiz and got 14 out of 20, but most of the time i was just guessing, i didnt really know....i've never thought any of my yankee friends have fake smiled at me (because all my jokes are hilarious and obviously my company is so smile inducing ...!!hehe) You guys have such beautiful teeth though that you should show them off, us Brits need to keep ours hidden!! (hows that for a stereotype?!)
Basically i don't think nationality is reflected in smiling, personality has much more to do with it!